My own game

As I was waiting for James to show up in front of Tim Hortons, this fat woman came up to me and start talking to me, asking me if I live there and blah blah.

Then she asked me if I am single.

And it all came together. She is practicing what I learnt… except it is supposed to be used on women, not men. She also did it in a really bad way without any confidence to back it up, making it feel like something rehearsed.

So before she said the next thing, I asked her why she want to know if I was single, taking the control back in my hand and testing out if she did read the same thing I read.

And there it is, “My sister is single and I am hoping to find someone for her” A variant, but you get the point. Anyway, it sucks as an answer, but when it is directly said right after I responded “yes I am single” it is powerful.

It's refreshing to see my own strategy used on me, it gives me a huge insight on how personality and confidence changes the whole ball game.